Perhaps it was the result of a different type of education, more open minded parents or just the fact that they've ventured out of their home country.
And to hear “I love you” from them is like an impossible dream. They will greet you with a kiss, and give a goodbye kiss, and when you come back from work or go to sleep.
Many western societies are far more comfortable with gender equality and with educational and professional opportunities being available for women in some cases, Chinese girls focus on their career for first 7-8 years post- graduation, possibly to the detriment of her social and love life; now she is 27 or more and carries the stigma of being a “leftover woman”; too old for local men—yet a foreign man has no such qualms about age and often cherishes a well educated, well travelled, feminine woman So, now we know some of the key attractions of Chinese girls to foreign men, what about some of the key points of etiquette and manners?
Chinese culture and society are multi- layered and it’s relatively easy to give offence to a Chinese girl without intending to do so.
This goes back to less stable times, when marriage meant much-needed security, but of course this is by no means a purely Chinese phenomenon: In 2010, 44% of American women had married by age 25, but way way back in 1995, more than 59% had been hitched by 25.
China is relatively new to the whole modern-stable-globalized-internet (still working on that last one, really) country thing, and when your culture is over 4,000 years in the making, old habits die hard.
Here are some reasons why Chinese women are attracted to Western men: Almost all of the women I talked with said that they love that their men enjoy life.