They think it’s creepy and even put them the same category as pedophiles.
But many people in society still look down upon older men dating younger girls.
This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So much so, that they don’t go after women they’re actually interested in.
This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences.
The two critical rules for older guys dating girls under 25: Rule #1: Don’t be needy You should never be needy with any woman (exceptions made if she’s an over 30 divorcee with two kids and a Snickers bar figure) but it is especially important to refrain from showing even the slightest displays of neediness with the under 25 girls.
A young woman is extra-sensitive to the subtle signals that a man gives off when he is a little too happy to be with her.
However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.
On the other hand, many women are most attracted to men in their 30’s, 40’s, and even 50’s.
If we embrace the struggles that have given us the very life experience a mature man (or anyone) finds appealing, we give ourselves permission to reconnect with our own childlike spirit.
Sure, men over 40, 50 and 60 also have unattractive qualities that often get generalized (for good reason!
Any more than that and you will make her too insecure.
Leave 22 year old for 30 minute stretches of time to flirt with girls in different parts of the bar.
Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.