We perceive others as less caring, less interested, and less committed than they actually are, and we judge our relationships to be weaker and less satisfying than they may really be.
In an effort to protect ourselves from even further emotional hurt, we become hyper-alert to any signs of rejection from others and more apt to miss signs of acceptance.
Barbara and I feel its dividing tug in our relationship when we have disagreements and misunderstandings.
Our busyness repeatedly invites its presence into our marriage.
In addition to more than a million legal divorces each year I know of no more potent killer than isolation ...
no more destructive influence on physical and mental health than the isolation of you from me and us from them.
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Now that I got that disclaimer out I am doing this in hopes of saving some other lonely dork who prob has issues with estabhlishing relationships from getting had in the same manner I was because it made me feel at first that I was facing rejection from supposed women who should be the most easy catch and thought that God just wanted me to remain celebit.
The devil's strategy for our times is to trivialize human existence and to isolate us from one another while creating the delusion that the reasons are time pressures, work demands, or economic anxieties." I believe that isolation is Satan's chief strategy for destroying marriage.
Oh sure we talk and take care of kids etc but you can't have any deep meaningful conversation when someone's attention is divided if not elsewhere. Is it even possible once we've drifted so far apart? I was an insecure, scared child at the time, and all I knew was that I loved this fun-loving guy and I was comfortable and safe with him. I ask him where he was going, and he tells me he's leaving to Mexico for another week. It is my fault I strayed after 19 years of sexual neglect... Someday ur gonna miss all the times I asked for a kiss and u didn't give me one Someday ur gonna miss me asking for a foot massage after a 12 hour set up day and u didn't bother with me Someday ur gonna miss having me... I hate not having someone to sit up with, chat to, laugh with & be intimate with. I am a very attractive woman not considered attractive enough to have sex with by my husband. I admit it was me that chose to marry eventhough my family warned me about her yet I insisted. know my husband and I are like strangers in our home.
So when he proposed, I said yes, even though I knew I wasn't ready. It is my fault that I wanted soft sweet kisses before I fell asleep - you denied me It is my fault that I wanted a hug when I felt sad... Someone who knows when I need some attention, when I need to offload & talk about my day. He is a liar, addicted to **** who doesn't want to have sex with me. Wellllllllll yesterday he took me out on a date ...dinner and a movie still not much conversation but hey it was nice and I really felt like he was trying.
As I sit here having a one sided conversation with my husband, I'm getting very little response in return. He doesn't want me to do anything but stay at home. Here I am lying in bed writing this and another night by myself. He's asleep in a single bed with our 9 year old daughter. my husband has never been my friend or have ever tried.. If he doesn't want sex ANYMORE he should talk to me about it and be honest!
Then I wonder why I constantly crave communication from someone else. It started a few months ago and our daughter asked my husband (h) and her father to sleep in her bed with her. that something wasn't quite right, your intuition tingling, trying to tell you something that you couldn't quite hear. I didn't want my son to grow up without me in his life. It's like my life is a book whose secret no one knows and I am sailing on an unknown meaningless journey.. ....we dont know something, isnt it better so we crave it less.
ugh I don't ask for too much from what can be offered. Things could be as simple as keeping her own nails clean or keeping the house clean. Impossible so *any* opportunity the presents itself is jumped on (pun intended). We have grown into very different people in our life together, and so far apart.