With that marriage, I didn’t have to pursue the man who would become my ex-husband. Thank the good Lord above and inside that union ended in divorce, as it should have ended.Before long, I’d be remarried – but I wouldn’t say outright that I had to chase after that man to land him, either. Those Facebook viral photos of a woman on her knees proposing marriage to her boyfriend kind of make me cringe inside.Stephanie from Captive The Heart is happily married and also contributed to this series both on her blog and at Ignitum Today. She did not seem to be encouraging single women to pursue men.I think what she encouraged was for single women to not play games and instead to be honest. When you are with the right guy, no games are required. She responded enthusiastically to his initiation and pursuit.
One, men know how to pursue women when they are interested, and two women think this for those men who did follow-up with a first date they thanked the women for reaching out. When you pursue him you miss out on how good it feels to be a woman. From making her pay to talking politics, don’t make these first date mistakes.Because of our culture today, so many men are knocked down from pursuing us, they are constantly getting rejected. It’s a sad thing, really….”During my discussion with Gregg about this topic, he wanted me to let you girls know that men need cues! You may be surprised at my boldness during our courtship….. And, the reason I was bold was because Gregg gave me the confidence I needed to be my bossy self. You see, I lived in Virginia and Gregg lived in Kansas City.Before he met me, he experienced some of this rejection that Jen described and it can make a guy gun-shy. Things were going really well and I was curious to know if we had a future. Again, Gregg was extremely happy to receive this and other positive cues from me.It was extra special because my wife Renee was one of the panel speakers.I felt encouraged afterwards because it gave some real challenges to put into practice in my own life–but what stood out the most was a single question.Let me start by saying that i define dating as only the first 4 – 10 dates the more you think men and women are the same, the of dating, you can never lose if you follow a man’s lead. Let her carry the weight of conversation on a first date. First, our increasingly politically correct culture tells guys that women have equal responsibility when it comes to initiating the relationship. A mature man knows that the person that can do the most damage to a woman’s heart is him, and he.